Friendship is an important factor in student's life. We acquire the trust and develop an affinity for the person with whom we make friendship.
A bad friend will encourage you to move on the wrong path and try to ruin you as he/she's ruining while a good friend will understand you and help you develop and grow.
The dream of every student is to have a friend who truly understands him and stands by him like a true companion.
A best friend can bring out the best in you and light up the inner hidden talent in you. Friends are gift to us from God. Each friend can open a door of possibilities for you.
Let us now look into three the most important aspect of the friendship.
➤ Sympathize and stretch your hands.
➤ A friend can expose your drawbacks.
➤ Share your joys and sorrows.
⇛ Sympathize and stretch your hands:-
The friends you chose should understand you well and encourage you to lead you forward courageously. He should have decisiveness, conviction and concern for you. You should in turn extend all these attributes to your friends. You should step out of the ugly feature of selfishness and indifference and readily extend your hands to develop friendship. If you sit in one corner and expect everybody come to you and shake hands, you can never make any friend. On the other hand, the person who readily moves forward and help others can make many friends.
It can be seen in
⇾ Bill Gates & Warren Buffett : The philanthropic friends
The is the friendship between the world's two richest people, i.e. between Bill Gates, a man whose wealth at one point exceeded $100 billion and Warren Buffett the world's second richest person. The amazing thing about these friends is their philanthropic view as well as the extra-ordinary business acumen. While Buffett's uniqueness lies in his humble attitude and humour despite billions in wealth, Bill Gates, uniqueness lies in making information technology available at a relatively lower price.
When Warren and Bill Gates met for the first time, the meeting was scheduled only for thirty minutes by Bill Gates who thought they had nothing in common to share with each other. But the meeting lasted for ten hours and Bill Gates became a good friend of Warren Buffett. Warren Buffett was much impressed by the efforts of Bill Gates and his wife Melinda Gates for social concerns. Warren Buffet's philanthropic donations reached new heights in 2006, when he donated $31 billion to 'The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation.'
⇛ A friend can point out your drawbacks which you don't want to see yourself-
A true friend is not a sycophant. The friends who flatter you are dangerous for you and cause your downfall by developing a false ego in you. At the same time the friends who will treat you and unduly criticize you will cause harm by destroying your self-confidence A true friend sincerely brings the drawbacks to your notice and urges you to overcome them so that you can progress and his guidance is based on his conviction, courage and strength. You should develop friendship with such people as well as introduce them to your friends.
let's see something
⇾ The parable of the tiger
Once a tigress attacked a herd of goats . A hunter saw her and killed her. The tigress was pregnant and gave birth to a cub as she expired. The cub began to grow into the company of goats. At first it was nursed by the she goats and later on as it grew bigger, it began to eat grass and bleat like the goats. Gradually the cub became a big tiger but still it ate grass and bleated. When attacked by other animals, it would run away like the goats. One day a fierce looking tiger attacked the herd. It was amazed to see a tiger in herd eating grass and running away with the goats as it approach. It left the goats and caught hold of the grass eating tiger which began to bleat and tired to run away, but the fierce tiger dragged it to the lake and said," Now look at your face in the water. You see, you have the pot face of a tiger. it is exactly like mine." Nest it pushed a piece of meat into its mouth. At first the grass eating tiger refused to eat the meat. Then it got the taste of the meat and realized it. At last the fierce tiger said to the grass eating tiger," What a disgrace! You lived with the goats and ate grass like them!" The grass eating tiger was really ashamed of it and went away to forest along with the fierce tiger and lived like a real tiger.
The fierce tiger was the real friend of the grass eating tiger. It exposed its friend's ignorance and steered its life to live like a real tiger.
A lesson is also come out from this story that you will become as your friend circle.
⭆ Share your joys and sorrows with your friend
The famous proverb says," Joys are multiplied by sharing and sorrow is divided by sharing."
Some people may have problems which they can not discuss with others due to various phobias.
A true friend should not be jealous and envious to share the joy of his friend, but congratulate and encourage him to move forward . Similarly, When a friend shares his sorrow or problem, his friend should help him out and guide him.
A true friend is like parent for your right guidance and the most important thing is he always want to see your happy face.
We can see here.....
⇾ Abdul Kalam: Fortunate to have a friend to share his joys and sorrows
To have a friend with whom we can share our joys and sorrows is a great fortunate. Jallaluddin was brother-in-law of Abdul Kalam and enjoyed a lifelong friendship with him. Jallaluddin's friendship began during childhood with Abdul. During the ups and down in life, the friendship became stronger and remained intact for a whole lifetime. Jallaluddin went out with Abdul Kalam during his childhood on long walks towards the sandy shores discussing deep spiritual matters with him.
Jallaluddin had limited education and was not fortunate enough to acquire higher education, But Jallaluddin constantly encouraged Abdul Kalam had expressed his gratitude to Jallaluddin for creating awareness in him and exposing him to brave and new world which is beyond the narrow confines. When Jallaluddin passed away , Kalam was severely sorrowful. It seemed that along with Jallaluddin something within Kalam has also died.
Conclusion
Students need to be careful in choosing friends. A good friend will lead them to the right path, while bad friend will cause them downfall. The three principles of friendship will help in making good friend.
"Sympathize and extend your hands."
" A friend can expose your drawbacks which you don't want to see yourself."
" Share your joys and sorrow with your friends."
A bad friend will encourage you to move on the wrong path and try to ruin you as he/she's ruining while a good friend will understand you and help you develop and grow.
The dream of every student is to have a friend who truly understands him and stands by him like a true companion.
A best friend can bring out the best in you and light up the inner hidden talent in you. Friends are gift to us from God. Each friend can open a door of possibilities for you.
Let us now look into three the most important aspect of the friendship.
➤ Sympathize and stretch your hands.
➤ A friend can expose your drawbacks.
➤ Share your joys and sorrows.
⇛ Sympathize and stretch your hands:-
The friends you chose should understand you well and encourage you to lead you forward courageously. He should have decisiveness, conviction and concern for you. You should in turn extend all these attributes to your friends. You should step out of the ugly feature of selfishness and indifference and readily extend your hands to develop friendship. If you sit in one corner and expect everybody come to you and shake hands, you can never make any friend. On the other hand, the person who readily moves forward and help others can make many friends.
It can be seen in
⇾ Bill Gates & Warren Buffett : The philanthropic friends
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| Bill Gates |
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| Warren Buffett |
When Warren and Bill Gates met for the first time, the meeting was scheduled only for thirty minutes by Bill Gates who thought they had nothing in common to share with each other. But the meeting lasted for ten hours and Bill Gates became a good friend of Warren Buffett. Warren Buffett was much impressed by the efforts of Bill Gates and his wife Melinda Gates for social concerns. Warren Buffet's philanthropic donations reached new heights in 2006, when he donated $31 billion to 'The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation.'
⇛ A friend can point out your drawbacks which you don't want to see yourself-
A true friend is not a sycophant. The friends who flatter you are dangerous for you and cause your downfall by developing a false ego in you. At the same time the friends who will treat you and unduly criticize you will cause harm by destroying your self-confidence A true friend sincerely brings the drawbacks to your notice and urges you to overcome them so that you can progress and his guidance is based on his conviction, courage and strength. You should develop friendship with such people as well as introduce them to your friends.
let's see something
⇾ The parable of the tiger
Once a tigress attacked a herd of goats . A hunter saw her and killed her. The tigress was pregnant and gave birth to a cub as she expired. The cub began to grow into the company of goats. At first it was nursed by the she goats and later on as it grew bigger, it began to eat grass and bleat like the goats. Gradually the cub became a big tiger but still it ate grass and bleated. When attacked by other animals, it would run away like the goats. One day a fierce looking tiger attacked the herd. It was amazed to see a tiger in herd eating grass and running away with the goats as it approach. It left the goats and caught hold of the grass eating tiger which began to bleat and tired to run away, but the fierce tiger dragged it to the lake and said," Now look at your face in the water. You see, you have the pot face of a tiger. it is exactly like mine." Nest it pushed a piece of meat into its mouth. At first the grass eating tiger refused to eat the meat. Then it got the taste of the meat and realized it. At last the fierce tiger said to the grass eating tiger," What a disgrace! You lived with the goats and ate grass like them!" The grass eating tiger was really ashamed of it and went away to forest along with the fierce tiger and lived like a real tiger.
The fierce tiger was the real friend of the grass eating tiger. It exposed its friend's ignorance and steered its life to live like a real tiger.
A lesson is also come out from this story that you will become as your friend circle.
⭆ Share your joys and sorrows with your friend
The famous proverb says," Joys are multiplied by sharing and sorrow is divided by sharing."
Some people may have problems which they can not discuss with others due to various phobias.
A true friend should not be jealous and envious to share the joy of his friend, but congratulate and encourage him to move forward . Similarly, When a friend shares his sorrow or problem, his friend should help him out and guide him.
A true friend is like parent for your right guidance and the most important thing is he always want to see your happy face.
We can see here.....
⇾ Abdul Kalam: Fortunate to have a friend to share his joys and sorrows
To have a friend with whom we can share our joys and sorrows is a great fortunate. Jallaluddin was brother-in-law of Abdul Kalam and enjoyed a lifelong friendship with him. Jallaluddin's friendship began during childhood with Abdul. During the ups and down in life, the friendship became stronger and remained intact for a whole lifetime. Jallaluddin went out with Abdul Kalam during his childhood on long walks towards the sandy shores discussing deep spiritual matters with him.
Jallaluddin had limited education and was not fortunate enough to acquire higher education, But Jallaluddin constantly encouraged Abdul Kalam had expressed his gratitude to Jallaluddin for creating awareness in him and exposing him to brave and new world which is beyond the narrow confines. When Jallaluddin passed away , Kalam was severely sorrowful. It seemed that along with Jallaluddin something within Kalam has also died.
Conclusion
Students need to be careful in choosing friends. A good friend will lead them to the right path, while bad friend will cause them downfall. The three principles of friendship will help in making good friend.
"Sympathize and extend your hands."
" A friend can expose your drawbacks which you don't want to see yourself."
" Share your joys and sorrow with your friends."
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